Clearing the Path

Daily Practices to Reduce Screen Time and Build Family Presence

How to reduce screen time and bring daily presence into family life. Practices include shinrin-yoku, technology boundaries, and daily ritual.

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"Your Children Are Not Your Children": Why Your Neurodivergent Kid Is Not a Problem to Fix

Parents of neurodivergent kids don’t need another ‘fix your child’ lecture, they need a new story. This post weaves Gibran, Temple Grandin, and three generations of ‘different’ in my family to show how letting go of rigid expectations, embracing alternative paths, and explicitly teaching life and work skills (including through volunteering) can help autistic and ADHD teens build meaningful, AI‑resilient futures where their strengths are the point, not the problem.

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ADHD, Autism, and Addiction: How Screens, Gaming, and THC Hook Neurodivergent Teens

This blog explains how modern screens, gaming, substances, and online gambling uniquely affect neurodivergent teens with ADHD and autism, why these behaviors are often survival strategies rather than “bad choices,” and practical steps parents can take when outpatient care is not enough.

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Spread Kindness this holiday season: It’s a Protective Factor for You and Your Kid

This holiday season, consider giving your children something more lasting than another toy or gadget … the gift of kindness as a practice, a skill, a way of moving through the world. Acts of kindness are contagious, impacting the giver, the receiver, and the observer, and will improve your mental and physical health, too.

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The Gift of Disappointment: Building Resilience in Our Children During the Holidays and Beyond

When we rush to relieve our children's discomfort, we rob them of building distress tolerance. They don't learn that uncomfortable feelings pass, that they can survive not getting what they want.

As a parent, you can hold the discomfort with your child, stay present and manage your anxiety when they are upset. By doing this, you convey that you believe your child is strong enough to learn how to tolerate not getting what they want.

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When your child can’t be home for the holidays …

For parents whose child is in residential treatment, wilderness, or a hospital, the holiday season feels very different. Instead of joy, there's often a heavy mix of grief, guilt, and quiet relief that your child is somewhere safe, even if that "somewhere" is far from home.

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Understanding the Adolescent Mental Health Crisis - A Dive into the Data and Hope for Change

Hope for the global teen mental health crisis: Dartmouth College is hosting a groundbreaking three-day symposium that underscores how seriously the global community is taking youth mental health. "A Global Turning Point: Why Youth Well-Being Is in Crisis—and What We Must Do About It" will bring together dozens of leading international scholars, physicians, advocates, experts, and policymakers from around the world, including six former U.S. Surgeons General.

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Why Kindness Matters. It’s A Protective Factor for Mental & Physical Health

Kindness doesn't just make the world slightly better for others. It measurably improves our physical and mental health, reduces our stress reactivity, provides our children with concrete evidence that they have power to create good in the world, creates a ripple effect that touches givers, receivers, and observers alike, and literally retrains our brains to notice positive interactions instead of only threats and problems.

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