Clearing the Path
Your children are not your children …
These words from "The Prophet" first found me in high school, gifted by a dear friend at a time when I was just beginning to understand my own identity. As an only child and the center of my parents' world, these lines shifted something fundamental in how I saw myself — not just as someone's daughter, but as an individual on my own unique journey.
Now, decades later, as both a parent and therapeutic consultant, Gibran's wisdom resonates with even greater depth.
I Need to Make a Better Record
What does Taylor Swift have to do with helping your child cope with rejection? Great question.
Your best is always good enough.
In that moment, I heard the tired voices of so many parents who have picked up the phone and called me, exhausted from years of phone calls and appointments and teachers conferences and therapies and interventions and evaluations. They so often feel like they have failed their children because the “results” weren’t what they expected or hoped for.