When we rush to relieve our children's discomfort, we rob them of building distress tolerance. They don't learn that uncomfortable feelings pass, that they can survive not getting what they want.

As a parent, you can hold the discomfort with your child, stay present and manage your anxiety when they are upset. By doing this, you convey that you believe your child is strong enough to learn how to tolerate not getting what they want.

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Therapeutic Educational Consultant vs. Educational Consultant: What's the Difference?

Understanding which type of support your family needs

If you're reading this, you're likely seeking support for your child's educational or mental health journey. This can be an overwhelming and emotional time, and understanding the difference between types of educational consultants is an important first step in finding the right help for your family.

What is a Therapeutic Educational Consultant?

A therapeutic educational consultant provides individuals and families with curated, well-matched therapeutic (and academic) options for emotional, behavioral, academic and/or relational issues. Consultants travel frequently to ensure they maintain a real-time, firsthand understanding of school & program components.  Reputable therapeutic consultants are independent, meaning they do not accept or receive referral fees or any compensation from programs or schools for recommending.

When I get a call from a parent of a young adult who is anxious, depressed and generally “stuck” … and their worried about their ability to launch independently, I may recommend wilderness therapy.